寻找幸福的赫克托

拥有大多数平凡人所期望的生活的赫克托，在这样的生活里不断的重复着自己的人生，一遍又一遍，一遍又一遍。

而恰好和我们大多数人的人生相仿的事情是，我们同样的一遍又一遍，一遍又一遍的去重复自己的生活。

他是一个精神病医生，会见许多形形色色的病人，他拥有所有平凡人所努力追寻的一切，拥有大多人想要的完美人生。

然而当他有一天遇见一名客人，一个十分神经质，与其他病人不同的人。

其他的病人只是正襟危坐的坐在那儿倾诉自己，而这一位却是更爱谈他多一些。

这位很像灵媒的女子，自己更愿意将她看为人们在自己的生命里难以预见的触发点，就仿佛忽然有一天，有一个人或者一件事，让你开始自己问自己，这一切到底为了什么，如果是幸福，那么它又在哪。

于是赫克托愁眉苦脸的开始质疑自己的人生，他开始愤怒，开始失态，终于他开始了蜕变。

去做一件以前从未想去做过的事，去遥远的地方旅行，去寻找幸福的含义。

而正是在飞机上各式各样的小失态令他结识的第一个人，带他看见了财富下的幸福。

一个行为简单失常但保持着高素质的精神病医生在研究幸福，大概只有这样才能合理的吸引到银行家。

第一步，金钱从这里整部电影进入了正题，他开始被银行家带领着尝试美食，尝试性爱，满足味蕾，满足欲望。

在那一刻，他觉得自己十分的满足，似乎拥有了幸福。

却是第二天便发现那不过是银行家用钱替他找来的，深觉被骗。

在这样纸醉金迷的日子里，欲望闹闹的掌控了他的脑子。

第二步，单纯他上了西藏，想要在那找准幸福的含义。

而老人是早已看透了一切的人，他不停的向着为自己开门的人说道自己，直到最后终于表达了自己在寻找幸福后才被老人请进。

在大多外国人的电影里，似乎去到西藏，尼泊尔找到得道高人都得在那门前展现出自己的毅力。

这部片子大概也不例外，但一部轻松的喜剧自然不需要把主角写的在门前跪上了几天几夜。

而这位看透了一切的老人，唯一叫他看过的东西，是在阳光下风吹起的风马旗并且在那下面开怀大笑。

何时自己能一般单纯的面对简单的阳光，充满笑容时，自己大概就幸福了。

第三步，苦难非洲似乎是最容易表达着一点的地方，毒贩，医院，红薯炖汤。

电影想要表达的面太多，但表达的越多，就越难表达好。

电影里的非洲似乎一切都与家庭有关，毒贩不幸福是因为妻子，小男孩躺在病床上想要照顾妹妹，而红薯炖汤之所以美味更多的是因为一大家人聚在了一起。

在被绑架的日子里，生命的威胁令他不断的回顾自己的人生，而孤独的牢房确保了这一点的进行。

他不断的回顾人生，终于是找到了从前的自己。

而在一片苦难的地方，人们也有幸福。

第四步，做自己。

脱离了险境的他狂喜，决定去到最后一站，旧情人所处的地方。

在飞机上他倾听了别人对自己美好的回顾，也为后来在成为现在的自己打下了基础。

昔日情人已不是他记忆里的模样，但他始终未忘记自己的目标，寻找到幸福。

每一步，每一个地点，每一个阶段，他都认为自己找到了幸福。

1.Making comparisons can spoil your happiness.总是喜欢做比较的人感受不到快乐。

2.A lot of people think happiness means being richer or more important.很多人以为有钱有名就是快乐。

3.Many people only see happiness in the future.许多人认为快乐只在未来。

4.Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time.快乐也许是可以同时爱上两个女人。

5.Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story.快乐有时来自于欺骗。

6.Avoiding unhappiness...is not the way to happiness.逃避不幸并不意味着快乐。

7.Does this person bring you predominantly A) up or B) down?这个人通常带给你的是快乐？

还是痛苦？

8.Happiness is answering your call.快乐就是忠于天职。

9.Happiness is being loved for who you are.快乐是因为有人爱上了真实的你。

10. Sweet potato stew!吃上一大锅炖土豆！

11. Fear is an impediment to happiness.恐惧把快乐挡在了门外。

12. Happiness is feeling completely alive.快乐就是能活着。

13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate.快乐就是懂得尽情狂欢。

14.Listening is loving.倾听就是爱。

15.Nostalgia is not what it used to be.怀旧不代表回到过去。

最终在教授的幸福机器里，他回想了所经历的一切。

从前的自己在表达出自己对妻子的爱时，终于成为了现在的自己。

幸福出现在每一个角落，每一个地方，一路旅程，你可以看到各式各样的幸福，前提是你在找幸福。

一路的旅程，他找到了许久以前的自己，在不断回想经历里成为了现在的自己。

他要把在那个旧爱里拥有的快乐带到现在来，而可以与他完成这一切的人触手可及。

从此生活被加入了爱这样的存在，所谓爱，我会把我曾拥有的快乐带给你，而我也会和你一起去创造快乐。

不论贫穷与否，不论苦难与否。

电影从未具体的说什么是幸福，不断的变化着，但是毫无意外的事情是，幸福几乎到处都能看见。

PS：电影想表达的主题很大，描述的细节太多，以至于最后剧情变的松散，故事逻辑感变弱了。

用喜剧去表达带有深度的东西，从来都是极难。

而自己所认为的幸福最重要的是，做自己。

所谓的做自己。

第一便是了解自己，知道自己到底想要什么。

如同赫克托一般，他接触到幸福前的最后一步是去找到自己内心一直以来都期盼的人，从前的旧爱，藏在抽屉里的照片说明了一切。

倘若他不想，便早可告诉妻子那张照片，将其做成相框，说那是朋友。

之所以藏，必然是想。

第二便是找到自己，赫克托找到自己前，找到了过去的自己。

过去的余念带着他来到了旧爱面前，而在幸福机器的回顾里，他找到了自己。

第三，做自己。

在他表达出自己的情感对自己的克拉拉时，他成功的表达出了自己的情感，成功的成为了自己。

我们在意父母，但没有几个人会说一句我爱你，也没有几个人会给一个拥抱，不是那些礼仪，而是那些怀抱感情的表达带着句子，带着动作。

所谓的幸福，就是我爱你，然后我满怀情感的告诉了你，我爱你。

1.Making comparisons can spoil your happiness.总是喜欢做比较的人感受不到快乐。

2.A lot of people think happiness means being richer or more important.很多人以为有钱有名就是快乐。

3.Many people only see happiness in the future.许多人认为快乐只在未来。

4.Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time.快乐也许是可以同时爱上两个女人。

（后来被他划掉了）5.Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story.快乐有时来自于欺骗。

6.Avoiding unhappiness...is not the way to happiness.逃避不幸并不意味着快乐。

7.Does this person bring you predominantly A) up or B) down?这个人通常带给你的是快乐？

还是痛苦？

8.Happiness is answering your call.快乐就是忠于天职。

9.Happiness is being loved for who you are.快乐是因为有人爱上了真实的你。

10. Sweet potato stew!吃上一大锅炖土豆！

11. Fear is an impediment to happiness.恐惧把快乐挡在了门外。

12. Happiness is feeling completely alive.快乐就是能活着。

13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate.快乐就是懂得尽情狂欢。

14.Listening is loving.倾听就是爱。

15.Nostalgia is not what it used to be.怀旧不代表回到过去。

男主刚开始的生活里没有什么波澜，每天过的都一样，好像他与自己之前的女朋友分手了之后，生活里就没有了激情，对什么事情都毫不在乎，没有真情，是一个很无聊的人，一点都不有趣。

这样循规蹈矩的日子被他的一个病人，还有女朋友的神经质给打破了，当生活发生了一些变化之后，他开始去旅行，寻找幸福是什么？

他去的第一站是亚洲的中国，第二站是非洲，第三站是洛杉矶，第四站是回家。

在第一站中国的时候，他去了两个地方，第一个地方是上海，这个地方他体验到的是有钱人的生活是怎么样的？

体会了纸醉金迷的生活，美酒美女的相伴之后他去了中国的西藏，在这里他体会到了修行者的生活。

接着他去非洲，在这里体会到了救济，帮助他人的人的生活。

另一件事是体验到非洲人民在庆祝一件事情的时候，大家在一起，家庭之间在一起吃饭的快乐，以及很多人聚在一起跳舞，这样的一个经历。

体会到庆祝可以得到幸福。

在这里他还遭受了绑架事件，让他面临了死亡时刻，在这个死亡时刻的体验中，他知道了什么对自己是很重要的，并且体会到了，活着是一件特别好的事情。

他要让自己活着的每一天都是精彩的，不留遗憾的之后，他去了洛杉矶，解开自己多年以来的心结。

在去洛杉矶的途中，他又遇到了病人，这时他知道了倾听是一种爱，要对说话者保持自己的真情真诚。

到洛杉矶看到自己的前女友之后，她体会到婚姻家庭，孩子给人带来的幸福。

在这里他面临了一次可怕的通话，这个通话让他跟自己的女朋友敞开心扉，向她表白，他是多么的爱她，这个时候他开悟了，正是因为这个电话的刺激，让他开悟。

一路上的经历，结合着这一次的通话，他开悟了，紧接着他迫不及待地想要回到自己爱人的身边，从此他的生活也发生了改变，不再对生活没有热情，不再对自己的工作没有热情，而是对生活充满了热爱，并且活出了儿时的那种快乐感，敢于去追自己的梦，在业余时间的时候，他坐了他的飞机模型，而不是像一开始的时候忘了去做梦，消耗自己的时间，在自己不太喜欢的事情上（钓鱼）。

这一趟旅程让他从最开始对生活漠不关心，冷淡百无聊赖，浪费生命，浪费时间，到最后他对生活充满热情，对自己的工作也充满热情，对于自己的梦想也充满热情，敢于去追梦。

我的思考是幸福不在于追寻幸福的过程，而是对自己现在的生活工作充满热情，热爱生命，对人保持真诚和兴趣，活的不假装，活出自己，对梦想保持纯粹，用于追梦，活出自己的精彩。

珍惜当下，每一天都竭尽全力的去活。

这部电影没有用人生的大起大落来诠释一个道理，而是通过主人公自己主动去打破外在束缚自己的壳，通过旅行经历一些事情让自己去得到答案。

我认为电影诠释的这个方法是对我们每个人都很积极意义的，我们可以用到自己的生活中。

电影通过旅行过程中所去的地方诠释了几个场景的设定，金钱权势名利修行救济帮助他人朋友聚在一起独处时内在反思倾听真诚待人婚姻家庭孩子这六个方面都是我们觉得可以得到幸福的六个方面，主人公在不同的国家都经历了一遍，一路走来他顿悟了，所以为了让自己也能得到他那样的顿悟，我们可以给自己安排一些这样的场景，自己去经历一下，也许能和主人公一样，可以得到幸福的顿悟。

我的名字叫海克我是一个心理学家成天面对抱怨的病人走在恒定的街道上抓狂后的好耐心让我想去离开这里 去寻找金羊毛漂浮在云间笔记本慢慢起了开头首站 上海站霓虹灯下 繁华夜都市 金钱买来的快乐终究 是容易遗忘的一夜情下一站 西藏站云像帽子一样被雪山戴着踏入一所寺庙 白发的僧人他说 快乐不是用来追寻的继续前进 非洲站茫茫野地里村与村的边际格外分明贫困从来不能绑架 黑皮肤的他们在被打劫的出租车醒来搞笑剧情斗转直下生命在枪口下 才开始发芽影像交织在脑海里活着 是最快乐的事情人生像极了 一场公路电影所以 旅程继续在第三幕结束之前在飞机上 做一个真正的倾听者的经历我被灵气 再一次接触 暌违十二年的大学初恋现在的她是三个孩子的母亲告诉我怀旧不代表回到过去这一站 遇到了快乐届的爱因斯坦测试中 躲在角落的孩子再次出现克拉拉的一通电话 带我来到了灵魂黑夜脱掉疲乏的戏服 真情随着笑泪释放快乐极光 充溢大脑整理过去和当下的抽屉我明白了 我和你 在一起是最重要的我要回家我现在就要去机场

我真的是越来越喜欢英式喜剧了，没有哪个国家演绎“一本正经搞笑”有腐国那么绘声绘色。

后面过于矫情，但他笔记本里记录的关于幸福定义还是相当不错，记录在此、以后可回看：1.Making comparisons can spoil your happiness. 总是喜欢做比较的人感受不到快乐。

2.A lot of people think happiness means being richer or more important. 很多人以为有钱有名就是快乐。

3.Many people only see happiness in the future. 许多人认为快乐只在未来。

4.Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time. 快乐也许是可以同时爱上两个女人。

（后来被他划掉了）5.Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story. 快乐有时来自于欺骗。

6.Avoiding unhappiness...is not the way to happiness. 逃避不幸并不意味着快乐。

7.Does this person bring you predominantly A) up or B) down? 这个人通常带给你的是快乐？

还是痛苦？

8.Happiness is answering your call. 快乐就是忠于天职。

9.Happiness is being loved for who you are. 快乐是因为有人爱上了真实的你。

10. Sweet potato stew! 吃上一大锅炖土豆！

11. Fear is an impediment to happiness. 恐惧把快乐挡在了门外。

12. Happiness is feeling completely alive. 快乐就是能活着。

13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate. 快乐就是懂得尽情狂欢。

14.Listening is loving. 倾听就是爱。

15.Nostalgia is not what it used to be. 怀旧不代表回到过去。

Hector (Simon Pegg) is flying one of those old World War II biplanes. His dog is in the backseat and they are happy. Hector does a loop and the dog falls out. Hector realizes and starts screaming. A comic book type villain pops up from the rear of the plane and they begin to fight. Hector wakes up.Hector and his girlfriend Clara (Rosamund Pike) live a neat and tidy life of habit and order. He is a successful psychiatrist. His rates haven't changed for years and neither has Hector. She works for a drug company and has launched a new pill called Tranqualine.One nigh, Hector and Clara go to a restaurant to celebrate the success of Tranqualine. Clara's boss is happy that Clara never left them for a maternity leave and is totally devoted to the company without the interference of children.The owner of the restaurant notices that Hector isn't as boorish as the others. He tells her that he doesn't work for the company. He's a psychiatrist. She tells him she wants happiness, but because of her accent it sounds like wants a penis. Hector and Clara have a laugh about a penis, but truth be told, the conversation makes Hector start questioning his own happiness.His ordered life now feels like a drag. He begins to lose patience for his patients and eventually snaps. Eventually Hector snaps.He tells Clara that he needs to go on a journey to research happiness. While Clara packs for Hector she finds an old photo in his sock drawer of a younger Hector with another man and a woman. She doesn't say anything about it. Hector asks if shell still be there when he returns. She asks how long hell be gone. He doesn't know. Neither does she.Hector flies business class to China. He sits next to a cranky business man named Edward (Stellan Skarsgard). He finds that Clara has packed him a notebook to log his journey and to doodle. She also included the photograph she found in his sock drawer. Edward complains that things are better in first class. Hector notes:1. Making comparisons can spoil your happiness.Hector wants to order from the duty free store on the plane, but needs to fill out paperwork. He cant find a pen. Edward lets him borrow his, but tells him that it costs more than his car and he had better return it.At the airport, Hector fumbles with his map and realizes he still has Edwards pen. He runs to return it and Edward decides to show Hector what his happiness is. He takes him to a nice hotel and a nicer meal. Hector asks Edward what his happiness is. Edward says he works too much to think about it. Happiness is supposed to be retirement and enjoying life. But the only way to enjoy retirement is to not retire. But because Edward works so hard and makes so much money he is able to enjoy the most lavish or luxuries. Hector notes:2. A lot of people think happiness is being rich or important.Edward takes Hector to a very exclusive nightclub in Shanghai full of women. Hector meets Ying Li (Ming Zhao) and instantly falls for her hard. He notes:3. Many people see happiness only in their future.He also notes after having spent a non-sexual night in bed with a naked Ying Li:4. Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time.He takes her out to lunch. There are a group of poor women sitting on the street eating together and having a great time. They're surrounded by a sea of grim businessman, not completely unlike Edward. Hector asks what makes them so happy. Hector asks Ying Li to go with him to the mountains and together they can meet her family. She cant go because its shameful how she makes a living. On cue, we meet her pimp. Ying Li isn't a student. Ying Li is a prostitute. The previous night was a gift from Edward. Hector notes:5. Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story.Hector goes up the mountains and visits some monks. He asks one how he can be happy even though hes suffered so much in life. The monk explains and Hector notes:6. Avoiding unhappiness is not the road to happiness.Hector helps the monks set up their dish network and hes able to Skype Clara. She asks how Shanghai was. Neither can help but to notice how evasive Hector is at answering that question. The wind blows down the radar dish and the signal is lost. The monks dance beneath many colored flags which dance in the wind. They find happiness where Hector is finding grief. Next, he goes to Africa.Hector flies on a terrifying plane. One of the African women tries to comfort him by noting how old the plane is. That means its never crashed. If they land safely he should meet her family for Sweet Potato Stew. He notes:7. Does the person you're with bring you predominately A): Up or B): Down?Hector meets his old friend Michael (Barry Atsma) from the photograph in the sock drawer. He and his bodyguard Marcel take Hector to his hotel. Its a dive. In the bar he meets a drug lord named Diego Baresco (Jean Reno). Diego is upset and quick tempered. He doesn't believe in happiness because his wife is unhappy in spite of taking medication to make her happy. Hector offers to look at her prescriptions. He finds out there may be some harmful interactions between pills and directs Diego to a colleague who may be able to help. He has to borrow Diego's pen though, because he's given Edward's pen back.Michael sees Hector talking to Diego and explains that Diego is a criminal and should be avoided. Hector still has his pen. He spends a week helping out at Michael's clinic and notes:8. Happiness is answering your calling.At the end of the week he finds out that Marcel is more than Michael's bodyguard. Hes his lover. And they're happy. Hector notes:9. Happiness is being loved for who you are.Hector meets the lady from the plane and has Sweet Potato Stew with her family. He notes:10. Sweet Potato Stew!On the way back to his hotel his vehicle is carjacked and he is kidnapped and locked in a rat infested cell. He notes:11. Fear is an impediment to happiness.The kidnappers are about to kill him. Hector says he's friends with Diego, but cant prove it. A gun is pointed at his head, but Hector asks if he can make one final note in his book about what brings his captors happiness. He pulls out his pen to write, its Diego's gold and engraved pen. He is able to prove that he knows Diego. The kidnappers let him go. He notes:12. Happiness is feeling completely alive.The previously stuffy Hector would never dance. The reborn Hector celebrates and dances with the woman from the planes family. He notes:13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate.He Skypes Clara, who is getting dressed in a fancy gown. He explains that he was kidnapped. She's disinterested. She has plans of her own and has to go.Hector flies First Class to Los Angeles. On the plane, he attends to a woman with a brain tumor. The pressure from the altitude is causing her extreme pain. She just needs to get to her sister to say goodbye. The pilot clears the plane for flying lower. When they land, everyone cheers. Hector tells the paramedics not to take her to the hospital, but to see her sister instead. She tells him he's very good at what he does. He explains he's not actually that kind of doctor. She clarifies that she means he's very good at listening. He notes.14. Listening is loving.Hector goes to the beach in Santa Monica where the photo was taking with him, Michael and Agnes (Toni Collette). She's pregnant and has two other kids. Agnes, Hectors one who got away, is happily married. He calls Clara to tell her he's in Los Angeles. She says she knew this whole trip was about rekindling an old flame. He explains that she's married and has kids. Hector tells Clara that smothering is mothering with an S. They break up.Agnes and Hector are going to meet with Professor Coreman (Christopher Plummer) who has written a book on and is studying the effects of happiness on the brain. On the way there, Agnes tells Hector that its unfair and insulting that he put her on a pedestal because she's better than his fantasy because she's real. She did love Hector at one time, but now she loves her husband and her family. He notes:15. Nostalgia is not what it used to be.During Coreman's lecture, he points out that people shouldn't be concerned with the pursuit of happiness, but with the happiness of pursuit. Afterwards, Agnes and Hector go to Coreman's lab and check out a project he's working on that will visually show, in real time, the brain and how it reacts to different emotions.Agnes is instructed to go into a room and think about three things, times when she was happy, sad and scared. She does and through his brain scanning technology, Coreman was able to tell which order she thought about the three emotions. Hector is next.He thinks about Clara marrying someone else. He thinks about his time being kidnapped and about Ying Li. His emotions are very blocked. Its hard to get a reading. Clara calls and Hector asks that Coreman give him a moment. His brain is still being monitored through the phone conversation.Clara tells Hector she wants to be a mother, not just his mother. Hector says he's sorry for not explaining his trip and tells her that he learned a lot and the most unhappy thing he could imagine would be to lose her and the happiest thing possible would be to become the man she would want to spend the rest of her life with.Hectors brain is no longer blocked, all the colors start firing because that's what happiness is. It's everything. We flash to the colored flags the monks were dancing around. They're just like the colors flashing in Hector's head.Hector rushes home and marries Clara.

感觉这部片子和凯奇的天气预报员有神识之处 两人都有着一份可以说很好的工作 可他们都对工作产生了麻木甚至厌烦 最后爆发 最后又柳暗花明 找到了自己 西蒙真的很适合在一个类型片里当一个主角 他天生带有的喜剧感觉 演起却戏路又不局限于喜剧 那个中国女演员真的不好看啊 >.< 可能这就是外国人的审美吧.......ps 如果有胖胖来客串就更好啦

今天在CHC上看了这部电影，还是很有感受的，与最近热播的《如果岁月可回头》有共同之处。

一个精神科医生想寻找他认为的幸福，到中国、非洲、美国……当他在旅途中经历了一系列遭遇后，可知道对于自己来说，什么是真正的幸福。

15条关于幸福的领悟：1.Making comparisons can spoil your happiness. 总是喜欢做比较的人感受不到快乐。

2.A lot of people think happiness means being richer or more important. 很多人以为有钱有名就是快乐。

3.Many people only see happiness in the future. 许多人认为快乐只在未来。

4.Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time. 快乐也许是可以同时爱上两个女人。

（后来被他划掉了）5.Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story. 快乐有时来自于欺骗。

6.Avoiding unhappiness...is not the way to happiness. 逃避不幸并不意味着快乐。

7.Does this person bring you predominantly A) up or B) down? 这个人通常带给你的是快乐？

还是痛苦？

8.Happiness is answering your call. 快乐就是忠于天职。

9.Happiness is being loved for who you are. 快乐是因为有人爱上了真实的你。

10. Sweet potato stew! 吃上一大锅炖土豆！

11. Fear is an impediment to happiness. 恐惧把快乐挡在了门外。

12. Happiness is feeling completely alive. 快乐就是能活着。

13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate. 快乐就是懂得尽情狂欢。

14.Listening is loving. 倾听就是爱。

15.Nostalgia is not what it used to be. 怀旧不代表回到过去。

下是男主在旅途中总结的关于快乐的真理。

1.Making comparisons can spoil your happiness. 总是喜欢做比较的人感受不到快乐。

2.A lot of people think happiness means being richer or more important. 很多人以为有钱有名就是快乐。

3.Many people only see happiness in the future. 许多人认为快乐只在未来。

4.Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time. 快乐也许是可以同时爱上两个女人。

（后来被他划掉了）5.Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story. 快乐有时来自于欺骗。

6.Avoiding unhappiness...is not the way to happiness. 逃避不幸并不意味着快乐。

7.Does this person bring you predominantly A) up or B) down? 这个人通常带给你的是快乐？

还是痛苦？

8.Happiness is answering your call. 快乐就是忠于天职。

9.Happiness is being loved for who you are. 快乐是因为有人爱上了真实的你。

10. Sweet potato stew! 吃上一大锅炖土豆！

11. Fear is an impediment to happiness. 恐惧把快乐挡在了门外。

12. Happiness is feeling completely alive. 快乐就是能活着。

13. Happiness is knowing how to celebrate. 快乐就是懂得尽情狂欢。

14.Listening is loving. 倾听就是爱。

15.Nostalgia is not what it used to be. 怀旧不代表回到过去。

一直很喜欢励志片，特别是讲寻找内心世界的东东。

而且这些电影特别适合一个人看。

一个精神病科的医生，过着井井有条的生活，一成不变，每天听着病人絮絮叨叨的讲自己的不开心，不顺利，整个人都被负能量包围，自然，不懂得敞开心扉，迎接生活。

不结婚，是因为心底里还有一个结。

有一天，在一个病人（神婆）的推动下，在对生活没有盼头的情况下，出发世界旅行（btw, 我的目标），第一站，中国，不知道为什么，外国人眼中的中国总是喧闹、情色、落后（哪怕变形金刚也是这种感觉）。

在上海，男主游离在美好的肉体前，感情已抛在脑后（看霍金的时候，有一段对话，有朋友问：那个渐冻人，全身地方都不能运动，那个地方呢？

霍金说：那个是自动的。

可见，男人的本性。。。

）说回hector，然后，他去了西藏的一个寺庙，在那里，他需要找到快乐的方程式，在太阳下，在彩旗下，大家自由的呼吸空气，享受大自然的一切，然而hector却感受不到，他无法了解，那些僧人的感受。

然后他又去了非洲。。。

直到最后，他去了洛杉矶，去解开心中的那个结－那个女孩。

女孩早已结婚生子，早已心有所属。

当时的那段情，是时间慢慢的消磨了一切（那时间是否是一种物质，又跳了）。

她告诉hector, 其实，在那个时间，真的很爱过。

只是，过去了。。

闭上眼，所有的感受都回来。

开心与不开心，都是自己决定。

推荐理由：前段时间看的gone girl, 女主太深入人心啦，这一部的女主也是她，不禁被惊吓一下，怕又出现腹黑女主。

还好，重点还是男主。