让爱传出去8.21社会学老师尤金布置了一样作业,想一个点子让这个世界变得更好并付诸行动。
初一学生崔佛的点子是帮助三个人改变他们的生活并让他们也改变三个人的生活。
(传销啊)为此他请流浪汉住进家里,可惜流浪汉沉迷毒品。
但崔佛的主意却在城市里渐渐流传开来。
一群人变得愿意帮助人。
同时崔佛撮合尤金和妈妈在一起(影响身边的人),尤金是一个循规蹈矩的人,这让他很痛苦,但他开始了两人的恋爱关系。
这时崔佛的生父回来了,他原来一直酗酒殴打他妈妈,麦基尼让他回来了,这让尤金回忆起了原来自己的遭遇。
麦基尼找回了自己的妈妈,外婆之前流浪街头,他们团聚在一起给崔佛过生日。
记者找到崔佛采访他,因为他的活动已经传到了洛杉矶和旧金山,崔佛刚刚接收完采访却被坏孩子刺死。
许多人慕名来送别崔佛。
在youtube网站上看到的把美国的童星Billy唱的one voice和pay it forward合起来,非常搭调有时间可以看看http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iToPFNmERFk
这是一个有关传递爱心的故事。
故事的开始是一个记者在雨夜冒雨采访警察追捕罪犯,结果车子被撞烂了,这时候,有个大律师主动提出送给他一辆新车,律师以为这是陷阱,可是真的把车开回家后,发现这竟然是真的。
于是,记者返回来找律师,律师告诉他把爱传递出去的故事。
原来,律师的女儿患有哮喘,有一天突然发病,律师带着女儿来医院就诊,可是护士就是不帮忙,有个黑人哥们胳膊受伤严重,护士不按先后顺序看诊,律师很是恼火又没办法。
这时候黑人哥们吓唬护士,让她一定要先照顾小女孩,甚至还拿出抢来,就这样,律师女儿得救了,黑人小混混被抓进监狱。
黑人小混混给律师讲了关于他的爱心传递的故事。
记者很好奇,想要寻根溯源,这个传递爱的行动很不平凡,于是来到监狱找到黑人小混混。
小混混给记者讲了关于自己的于是,不久之前,黑人小混混偷窃了东西,然后被警察追着跑,就在眼见被抓之际,有个老妇人主动上前要载着他离开,他很纳闷,不过为了逃命还是照做了。
老妇人告诉他传递爱,一个人帮助三个人,被帮助的三个人再帮助三个人,这样有一天世界就会变得美好。
回到故事的主线之中。
单亲妈妈阿琳一个人照看着儿子特雷弗,她身兼两份工作,要拼命赚钱养家,一份工作在酒吧,一份工作在赌场。
阿琳唯一的嗜好就是爱喝酒,天天回家要喝一口,可是特雷弗却多次劝老妈戒酒,从来没成功过。
开学第一天,特雷弗的社会学老师尤金给同学们布置了一项课外家庭作业:让世界变得更美好。
特雷弗不爱讲话,可是对于这道题目有自己的理解,特雷弗就在家里算啊算,传递爱行动就这样开始了。
特雷弗一个人帮助三个人,这三个人每人再帮助三个人,这小小的行动就会改变世界。
特雷弗先是请流浪汉来到家里,给他吃的喝的,还让他住在老妈的皮卡车上。
阿琳发现之后又怕又是震惊,了解过后,发现儿子竟然有这样的社会学作业。
于是生气地来到学校,把家里发生的事情告诉了尤金,尤金自此之后格外注意特雷弗。
流浪汉很快找到了工作,特雷弗给他自己的零用钱换了一身衣服,实际上流浪汉骗了特雷弗。
当特雷弗去看他时候,才发现他还是在嗑药。
特雷弗的传递爱行动就这样失败了,可是他不知道的是,有一天,这个流浪汉救下了一名想要跳河自杀的女子。
可是特雷弗没有放弃,他转而把目光放到了老师尤金和妈妈阿琳身上。
特雷弗觉得老师是个特别好的人,只是脸被烧伤了很难看。
于是特雷弗想方设法让老妈和尤金老师约会,事情是波折地进行,终于有一天两人都心照不宣,终于在一起了。
可是特雷弗老爹回来了,阿琳决定再给特雷弗爹一个机会,可是江山易改本性难移,很快就原形毕露。
阿琳通过特雷弗的举动,想起了自己的妈妈,于是找到老妈两人和解,把传递爱这个行动告诉了老妈。
这个老妇人就是前面那个帮助人的老妇人。
最后,尤金和阿琳在一起了,可是就在那天,特雷弗为了帮助同学而被杀。
在此之前,记者采访了特雷弗,特雷弗上了电视,可是悲剧就这样发生了。
成百上千的人来到特雷弗家门口帮助他祈祷。
看到结局泪水还是红了眼睛,他成功的把爱传出去了,It worked,他成功解救了他的妈妈从此戒掉酒精,成功鼓励了他的老师勇敢追求爱情……但是他却去了另一个地方了。
开始的时候并没有想到pay it forward这个概念是由一个七年级的学生提出来,而且他真正把这个想法落实到实践当中。
多可爱的人儿呀,小小的孩子,有着大大的梦。
心中有爱,就会永远活得快乐。
这也是解救每个深陷窘境的人的秘诀。
“当你第一次睡在垃圾堆旁,第一次用报纸盖住自己的身体,只要有一个人过来拉你一把,哪怕是来自一个孩子的帮助,你都会接受...”电影中的流浪汉说。
我们无法改变这个世界。
这是我们固有的观念。
但是很多时候,大概是由于我们的思想,限制了我们的行动。
真实的一幕:几个月前的某天,我和小寻路过大观河的一座铁桥,一个妇女正试图从桥的护栏上翻下去。
我和小寻就在桥的一端,周围还有些人看见就绕道而行。
当时我迟疑了几分钟,正在想是否应该带电话报警,然而此时小寻已经冲过去把妇女拉了下来,搀扶到桥边...伸出你的双手,拉她一把,或许就改变了她的命运。
看完这部片子,我相信也许我们甚至都无法改变自己的命运,但是很多时候只是自己的举手之劳,却仍然可以改变别人。
不要吝惜你的爱,让它们不断的传递吧!
伸手摘星未必如愿,但不会弄脏你的手。
感人指数:五星温情指数:五星观赏指数:五星此外,希望观看此片时,不要过分纠缠故事情节以及人物设定等内容。
Page 0 The protagonist is ironing his shirt. We can see from his hand and face that he has been burned before.Page 1 A reporter hears the police communication about a violent crime taking place, so he rushes to the scene to get the scoop. Instead, his car is crashed by the criminal and the police are just too busy with the chase to notice. Then a stranger shows up and gives him a brand new Jaguar out of the blue. The reporter is freaked out about the generosity. (TEASER)Page 5 4 months earlier. A school with metal detectors at the entrance. The students are not strangers to sex and violence. Trevor saves a little kid from the bullies who try to bring knives into the school without triggering the metal detector. Page 6 The students enter the classroom while the teacher is working on his map. When he turns to the students, they are silenced by the burn scars on his face. The teacher introduces himself and he is the social study teacher. He talks about the truth of why the kids don’t have to think about the world. And why the kids should do something to change the world before they are face to face with the huge disappointment. Trevor is inspired when he learns that the teacher changes the world by passing knowledge to the students. (EMOTIONAL OPPORTUNITY FOR TREVOR. THE TEACHER HAS THE IDEA BUT NOT THE COURAGE AS HE HAS BEEN SERIOUSLY INJURED BEFORE)Page 12 Trevor rides bicycle in the desert and back to his neighborhood. He rides to the place where homeless people are gathering. (PHYSICAL OPPORTUNITY FOR TREVOR)Page 15 The stripper club. The waitress refuses to drink as she has promised her kid and she turns down sexual offers on the ground of marriage. She turns out to be Trevor’s mother who calls to check on him, not knowing that he has brought a homeless guy home, eating with him. There is obviously some communication issue between the mother and son.Page 18 The mother gets off work and takes the bus home. When she gets home, Trevor is already asleep. She goes to the garage and thinks for a while. Finally he finds a bottle of alcohol from the washing machine and drinks with great satisfaction. Not knowing that the homeless guy is sleeping in the back of the truck. But in the middle of the night, Trevor still finds out about the empty bottle.Page 22 The next morning, Trevor expresses his anger about her sneaking of the alcohol. Just when they are arguing, the homeless guy appears asking for toilet paper. The mother is so shocked that she kicks the guy out, which makes the son even angrier and tells his mother that she won’t understand the assignment from the teacher.Page 24 The mother goes to see the teacher angrily. The teacher sees through the communication issue between mother and son right away. The mother is so frustrated that she attacks the scar on his face. The teacher takes the insult in. The mother looks up the words she doesn’t understand in the dictionary.Page 27 The reporter comes to see the stranger who is a senior partner at a law firm asking about what is going on with “pay it forward”. So the lawyer talks about his story: when he was in the hospital with his daughter without any doctor taking care of them, he had an argument with the nurse. A black patient is angry about the situation and fires his gun to get the nurse’s attention, which the lawyer appreciates very much. That’s how he learned about “paying it forward.”Page 30 The mother is woken up by the noises in the garage. It turns out to the homeless guy again who has fixed his truck. He talks about how Trevor gave him hope, how he knows the value of the opportunity and what is at stake. He also talks about the concept of “paying it forward”, which piques his mother’s interest. (CHANGE OF PLAN: PAY IT FORWARD STARTS TO TAKE EFFECT IN PEOPLE’S LIVES)Page 33 Trevor explains the concept to the class. At the same time, the homeless guy explains it to the mother, who is emotionally connected with him. The teacher is impressed by the idea and calls it admirable. For the first time, Trevor comes to the teacher personally and asks him about his true opinion of his idea. He also asks him about his face. But the teacher thought it was just a prank played by the class until he sees that Trevor walks away alone.Page 38 Trevor goes to knock on the door of the homeless guy, who is too weak to come out to see Trevor as he is back to drugs again. He crosses Jerry out from his notebook. He writes down his teacher’s name on his notebook as the next person he is going to help. (COMPLICATIONS FROM THE HOMELESS GUY)Page 41 Trevor gives his teacher a note nervously. He tries to setup a date between his teacher and his mother, successfully. He lies to them individually and even lights a candle to nudge them to have dinner together. Everything is doing well until the sponsor comes to interrupt. (PROGRESS WITH THE TEACHER. THIS IS UNIQUE AS THE TEACHER INSPIRES THE KID INADVERTANTLY TO HELP HIMSELF.)Page 46 Trevor is angry that his mother messes the date up and deep down, she is still waiting for his father to come back. When Trevor starts to doubt her love, she slaps his son on the face and begins to look for alcohol everywhere until she finds one bottle from the lamp. When she comes back to her senses, she discovers that Trevor is missing. (EMOTIONAL COMPLICATIONS WITH THE MOTHER)Page 50 After she has called the police with no result, she has no choice but to call the teacher to look for him, as she doesn’t have a car. She becomes very honest with the teacher admitting that all of her friends are drunks, including herself. Finally they find Trevor in a bus station where a pedophile tries to seduce him. The teacher is so angry that he beats the shit out of the pedophile. The mother apologizes to Trevor from the bottom of her heart and admits to Trevor her big problem. The mother is very appreciative and asks the teacher to have dinner with her later. But the teacher doesn’t think it will be appropriate. (PROGRESS WITH THE TEACHER AND MOTHER BECAUSE OF TREVOR’S MISSING)Page 55 The reporter goes to the jail asking the black patient about “paying it forward”. He claims that it was his idea. (PROGRESS FOR THE REPORTER)Page 57 The teacher selects a shirt so that he can go to see the mother. He is like a teenage boy checking his hair before meeting her. He pretends that he bumps into the mother by pure accident and tries to invite her to dinner, very awkwardly. (THE TEACHER IS INSPIRED BY TREVOR)Page 59 The reporter comes to see his friend who works for the governor about pushing the parole date for the black patient.Page 60 The mother comes home late and it drives Trevor crazy. He picks dresses for his mother and makes her ready as soon as possible, fearing that lateness will be interpreted by the teacher as lack of respect. Meanwhile, the teacher is impatient about the time. The mother is so happy that his son has called a cab for her already. The mother arrives just before the teacher walks away. (POINT OF NO RETURN: DATE BETWEEN THE TEACHER AND THE MOTHER)Page 63 The reporter goes to jail again asking the black patient about his story. He was stealing a store and then helped by an old woman to escape from the police. When she tells him that he is not good enough to pay it forward, he insists on doing it. (POINT OF NO RETURN FOR THE REPORTER)Page 67 Trevor goes to play in the amusement park with his mother and sponsor. The mother is still trying to deny she is seeing the teacher. But the talk with the sponsor makes her realize the connection between them. When she asks the teacher to spend the night, although the teacher struggles really hard internally, he kisses her passionately until he snaps out of it. (RISE OF THE EMOTIONAL ANTAGONIST FROM THE TEACHER)Page 70 The reporter decides to look for the old lady, even though his girlfriend doesn’t understand the rationality behind it. (HIGHER EMOTIONAL STAKE FOR THE REPORTER)Page 71 At home, the teacher arranges his pictures with nice music on. Suddenly the mother rushes in and asks him if he looks down upon her. The teacher uses big words to compensate for his scars on the face. Although the mother tells him that she doesn’t care about the burns, the teacher still freaks out and is reluctant to step out of his comfort zone, which saddens the mother. (RISE OF THE EMOTIONAL ANTAGONIST FROM THE MOTHER)Page 74 The little kid is bullied by the rogue kids again. When Trevor sees it, he is lack of the courage to help. So the little kid is thrown into the garbage bin by the rogue kids in the end. Trevor is so sad that he crosses the name “Adam” from the notebook where the teacher’s name has already been crossed out.Page 76 The teacher comes to Trevor as he has cut his class. But Trevor is very disappointed in the teacher as he stops calling his mother. Trevor tells the teacher that paying it forward doesn’t work and pushes him to call his mother before his father comes back. Trevor is profoundly disappointed that he couldn’t change the world. (RISE OF THE ANTAGONIST FROM TREVOR)Page 80 As the mother is cleaning the refrigerator, the teacher comes to knock on the door and makes love to her. He reluctantly shows her scars on the body. The next morning, when Trevor finds out that the teacher has spent the night, he is so happy that he asks the teacher to pay it forward. (HIGHER STAKES)Page 83 The reporter drives his new Jaguar to seek his story. Meanwhile, the homeless guy saves a lady’s life on a bridge when he asks the lady to save his life.Page 86 Trevor is having the time of his life with his teacher and mother watching wresting until his father comes back. He promises to his mother that he is sober now. The teacher has no choice but to leave. Trevor is devastated. (EVERYTHING IS LOST)Page 90 The mother comes to see the teacher explaining that she wants to give the father a chance. The teacher is so angry at her decision that he tells her the story about how his father abused his mother and burned him for life. (FINAL EMOTIONAL PUSH FROM THE TEACHER)Page 95 Trevor and the reporter meet for a second by accident. The father is very angry about the fact that Trevor’s not talking to him and he has been drinking. So his mother admits that she has made a mistake and kicks him out of the house. Meanwhile, the report goes around the town, doing his investigations. (FINAL PUSH FROM THE MOTHER)Page 98 Trevor is angry that the teacher is not paying it forward to his mother. But the teacher refuses to do that as he is mad at her for making the wrong decision no matter how hard Trevor begs. (FINAL PUSH FROM TREVOR)Page 102 The reporter finds the homeless old lady, who tells him that she got the idea from his daughter. It turns out that she is Trevor’s grandma and the mother came to find her and forgive what the grandma has done according to Trevor’s wishes. (FINAL PUSH FROM THE REPORTER)Page 106 Trevor’s 12 year old birthday party. He is disappointed that the teacher is not here. The reporter finds the boy at home and tells him that the movement has reached LA. (EVERYTHING IS TRULY LOST)Page 108 The reporter takes the boy to the school so that he can conduct the interview. During the interview, Trevor talks about how much he has failed because some people are just too scared to make changes and makes the world a shitty place.Page 110 The teacher suddenly wakes up and doesn’t want to be one of those scared people Trevor was talking about. He kisses the mother with passion. Meanwhile, Trevor sees his friend being beat up again. This time he musters enough courage to help. But before the teacher can intervene, the boy is stabbed by the bad boys to death. (FINAL PUSH BY THE TEACHER; RESCUE AND SACRIFICE FROM TREVOR)Page 115 After his death, the news celebrates what Trevor has done for the world. In the middle of the night, the mother and teacher wake up and are stunned to see how people line up to celebrate Trevor’s life.Page 120 Directed by Mimi Ledger
电影或许有些太过理想化,但那个理想化的世界才是我们今日为之奋斗的理由。
大概只有伟人,圣人,还有儿童可以拥有如此的单纯的理想,才可以做到坚持内心中的那一团火花,让人们亲身感受到希望与光芒。
当他单纯的想法被散播出去,成人世界那阴暗无比的利益显得微不足道,我们都活在了规则里,却忘记了那些规则,那些利益,从一开始都只是想要找寻幸福的。
自己愈发的爱上去观看这些感人至深的电影,不断的将自己从人性的恶里拉扯出来,去注意到我们所还拥有的善良,去接触到我们最原本的理想。
每看一部电影,自己很少的会去评价剧情,很少的会去评价手法,因为自己不懂,也更因为自己并不需要懂。
是他们可以唤起的共鸣让自己愿意将自己的时间换成文字,换成对这些优秀电影的感想,也是他们所引起的共鸣在这个世界产生作用。
学习积极心理学的时候认识到了一件事情,自己散播一份快乐出去,快乐可以散播成两份、三份、乃至全人类。
反之痛苦也毅然,多么期望在中国也看见如此感人至深的故事被传播出来,多么的期望有那么一个散播爱的运动从自己的祖国冉冉升起。
自己很想做那样的人,所以在努力做那样的人,每一个感人至深的电影都为自己对人性的善建立起一道壁垒,让自己在这物欲横流的社会不被击垮。
一步两步三步,学会感恩,学会帮助他人,每一次说出这样的话,就是在突破这个社会给自己锁上的枷锁,那个令人们戾气横生,为了一己私欲互相伤害的枷锁。
加油。
这是发生在德国的一个真实感人的故事。
一个9岁的孤儿德比为了寻找母亲,为了表达对母亲的爱,他每帮助一个人,就请求他去帮助另外10个人。
他想以这种爱心传递的方式,总有一天自己的母亲也会成为被帮助的对象。
他对母亲的这份深沉的爱感动了整个德国,人们掀起了“十件好事”的行动,德比成了德国的小名人。
然而不幸的是,德比却遇刺身亡。
在他弥留之际,无数的德国母亲假扮德比的母亲来陪伴他。
爱如潮水,涌动在每一个人的心房…… 1994年2月,德国北部城市科部仑兹还是一片冰天雪地。
伊特洛孤儿院就坐落在这莱茵河畔,高大的院落肃立在风雪中,显得格外寂静。
这天早晨,孤儿院50岁的特丽娅修女外出办事,走到大门口时突然隐约听到了婴儿的啼哭声。
她循声找去,在门口的树丛中找到了一个有着金色头发的男婴。
修女将他留下了,并给他取名德比。
转眼7年过去,德比在孤儿院里健康长大,他心地善良,但性格却有些忧郁。
天气晴朗的时候,修女们带着孩子们,穿过树林,到河边的青草地上散步。
树林边镇子里的人们指着他们对自己孩子说:“这些孩子都是被父母抛弃的,如果你不听话。
也把你送进孤儿院!” 听了这些话,德比非常伤心,他忍不住问修女:“嬷嬷,我的父母为什么不要我。
他们是不是不爱我?”德比的声音里充满了一种与年龄不相称的迷惘。
修女吃惊地问:“你怎么会这么想呢?” “大家都这么说,我们都是被父母抛弃的孩子。
”德比答道。
修女安慰他:“虽然我没有见过你的妈妈,但我相信她一定是爱你的,世界上没有不爱孩子的母亲。
当年你母亲之所以抛弃你,一定是很无奈的。
”德比没有说话,但是从此他仿佛突然长大了许多,经常独自站在孤儿院的窗口眺望,窗外是莱茵河,静静流淌的河水带走了德比对母亲的思念之情。
2003年母亲节,节日的温馨气氛再次燃起了德比对母亲的强烈渴望。
那天每个电视台都在热播庆贺母亲节的节目,他们拍摄了孩子们在母亲节里为妈妈奉献爱心的镜头。
有一个6岁的小男孩在汗流浃背地帮父母修剪草坪,他的母亲在一旁看着儿子,激动得热泪盈眶。
德比对修女说:“我也想帮我父母干活!你知道他们在哪里吗?” 修女沉默了,几年来,没有任何关于德比父母的消息。
德比伤心地跑到街上,街上有那么多母亲,可没有一个母亲是他的。
望着熙熙攘攘的人流,德比哭了。
几个月后,9岁的德比离开孤儿院,到附近一所小学读书。
一次课上,老师给学生们讲了一个故事:“古时有个皇帝,爱上围棋游戏,决定嘉奖游戏的发明者。
结果发明者的愿望是让皇帝赏他几粒米,在棋盘上的第一格放上一粒米,在第二格上放上两粒米,在第三格上加倍至四粒……依此类推,直到放满棋盘。
结果最后是1800亿万粒米。
总数相当于全世界的米粒总数的10倍。
” 这个故事让德比的眼睛顿时亮了,他想如果他帮助一个人,然后请他帮助另外10个人,以这样递加的方式传递爱心,也许终有一天受帮助的那个人就是自己的妈妈。
这个念头令德比兴奋异常,此后他每帮别人做一件好事,别人感谢他时,他总说:“请帮助另外10个人吧,那就是对我最大的感谢!” 那些受到德比帮助的人对这个善良的孩子充满感激,更对德比这种特殊的传递爱心的方式感到震撼。
他们像实现自己的诺言似的,帮助另外10个人,同时也告诉那些受到帮助的人去帮助10个人。
一个爱心的无形之网就这样在该市的市民中悄悄地展开了…… 十件好事的魔力 德比绝对想不到,自己竟然帮助了德国著名的节目主持人瑞克,并成了德国的名人。
瑞克是德国电视台的资深脱口秀主持人,虽然50岁了,但稳健的台风和风趣幽默的语言使他成为德国人爱戴的主持人。
他的节目通常会对所谓名人进行毫不留情一针见血的揭露,并让那些表面上道貌岸然私底下品质败坏的名人身败名裂。
也许是看到太多的社会黑暗面,也许是电视台激烈的竞争和工作的压力,2003年瑞克患上了忧郁症,几乎到了无法继续工作的地步。
lO月。
瑞克向电视台请了一年的长假,希望能在旅游中放松身心,恢复健康。
不久,瑞克旅游到了德比所在的城市,他被莱茵河的美丽深深吸引,傍晚时分他独自沿着河边散步。
突然他的心脏病发作,还没来得及把药从口袋里拿出来就昏倒在地上。
多亏在河边钓鱼的德比及时发现了昏倒的瑞克,他给医院打了急救电话,把瑞克送到医院急救。
瑞克经抢救终于苏醒了,当他得知是德比救了他时,他握着德比的手,万分感激地说:“孩子,我该怎么感谢你,如果你需要钱,我可以给你很多钱。
”德比摇摇头说:“如果你能帮助10个需要帮助的人,就是对我最大的感谢!”瑞克不解地问:“可是你真的什么都不要吗?”德比笑着摇头拒绝了。
瑞克被这个奇特的少年吸引了,他留下了与德比的联系方式,并开车把他送到了学校。
瑞克临走的时候。
德比再次叮嘱:“请一定做lO件力所能及的好事!”瑞克低头望着这个目光灼灼的少年,心头一热,认真地点了点头。
瑞克在这一瞬间找到了生活的希望,德比让他感觉到生活的美好。
此后他认真履行诺言,帮助了10个人。
每次帮助别人,他都觉得心里非常快乐,尤其是当别人对他真诚地说一声“谢谢”时,他觉得自己的生命特别有价值。
他结束了本来还有大半年的假期,提前回到了工作岗位。
所有的同事都惊讶地发现瑞克变了,他变得乐观豁达,乐于助人了。
10件好事产生的魔力,改变了瑞克,他的忧郁症就这样奇迹般地好了。
2003年12月1日,是瑞克脱口秀节目重新开播的第一个晚上,精神矍铄的瑞克站在谈播厅中央,对全国千百万观众讲述了自己的经历:“以前我说了那么多别人的故事,今天我要说说自己的故事……”他含着热泪,用了整整半个小时讲完了10件好事的魔力。
最后他哽咽道:“也许没有人相信这是真的,但是当我付出爱的时候,那种快乐真是让我热血沸腾。
请你也去帮助lO个人,你的生命将会产生一种奇妙的感觉。
” 通过电波,瑞克的节目传遍了德国的千家万户。
人们都被这个故事深深触动,很多人当即给瑞克打去电话,表示他们非常愿意做lO件好事。
还有更多的观众强烈要求把德比请到演播室,他们想认识这位富有爱心的男孩。
2004年1月,德比被请到了演播室。
有现场观众好奇地问他:“你为什么会有这种想法呢?”德比的脸红了,他有些犹豫地咬了咬下唇,然后道出了自己的想法。
没人能料到一个孩子对母亲的爱竟然如此深沉,而很多成年人整天忙碌在名利场,早就忘了自己的母亲。
德比的话触动了人们内心最柔软最人性的一部分,很多现场观众都热泪盈眶。
瑞克紧紧抱住了德比瘦弱的身体,说:“你的母亲一定会非常爱你,你一定会找到她的!” 千万母亲的爱 整个德国掀起了一股“做十件好事”热潮,昔日冷漠的人们变得有人情味了,人们都盼望着自己所帮助的那个人正是德比的母亲。
德比的形象与声音出现在德国的大街小巷,他的故事家喻户晓。
同时,电视台加紧了对德比母亲的寻找,然而德比的妈妈却迟迟没有出现。
2004年2月,一件更为不幸的事发生在这个善良的少年身上。
德比所在的学校,学生多是生活在贫民窟的孩子,有些孩子很小就加入了黑社会。
德比成名后。
就被那些坏孩子盯上了,他们认为成名的德比一定有很多钱。
2004年2月16日夜晚,德比回学校的路上,被一群小流氓围住。
然而他们在德比的身上没有找到钱,恼羞成怒的流氓用匕首将德比刺伤。
德比的腹部以及肝脏被刺破,伤势严重,倒在血泊中,直到两个小时后才被巡逻的警察发现送到医院。
在医院里,昏迷中的德比一直在喃喃呼唤:“妈妈,妈妈……” 电视台24小时直播德比的病情,所有关心德比的人都在祈祷他能苏醒。
德国的几十个大学生来到亚历山大广场,手挽手连成一颗心形,他们大声呼唤:“妈妈。
妈妈!”这呼喊声感动了路人,他们红着眼睛也加入到这颗“心”中,随着人数的增加,这颗心越来越大。
更为动人的是,自德比被刺后两小时内电视台接到几百个女人的电话,纷纷表示她们愿意当德比的妈妈。
丽达是慕尼黑大学的教授,她哽咽着说:“像德比这样的好孩子,做他的妈妈我感到自豪。
”35岁的塔丽娜多次打进电话说:“我从小没有母亲,我也非常渴望有母亲,我非常能理解德比的心情。
”还有一个电话是来自科部仑兹市的名叫朱迪的女人打来的,她的孩子几年前失踪了,一直在寻找孩子的她动情地说:“如果我的孩子像德比那样思念着我,我觉得太幸福了。
我希望我能成为德比的母亲,用一颗母亲的心真诚地爱他!”成千上万的电话涌向电视台,成千上万个母亲表达了她们最诚挚最迫切的心声:让我做德比的妈妈吧! 可是德比只能有一个母亲,电视台只能选择一个人作为德比的母亲去照顾他。
时间紧迫,经过大家的激烈讨论,一致同意让朱迪做德比的母亲,因为她就住在德比所在的城市,而且口音和德比相同,会更有亲切感。
2004年2月17日早晨,昏迷多时的德比睁开了眼睛,朱迪捧着一束美丽的百合花出现在德比的床边,握着他的小手说:“亲爱的德比,我就是你的母亲。
”德比仿佛看到了太阳一般,他的眼睛突然亮了,他惊讶地说:“你真的是我的母亲吗?”朱迪含着泪用力地点点头,在场所有的人也都朝德比微笑着点头。
两行热泪从德比的眼睛里滚落:“妈妈,我找了你好久啊!请你再也不要离开我,好吗?” 朱迪点点头,哽咽道:“放心吧,妈妈再也不会离开了。
”德比苍白的小脸露出了笑容。
他还想说更多的话,可是已经没有力气。
这是德比在人间停留的最后一天,他的手一直握着朱迪的手,不肯松开,他也不愿闭上眼睛,他要多看一眼母亲,在场的所有医护人员的眼泪就没有干过。
2004年2月18日凌晨2时,德比闭上了眼睛,永远离开了人间,他那只握着母亲的手一直没有松开。
这部老电影,说实话看电影名字觉得会是一部很主旋律的电影。
电影虽然讲的是大爱,却没有太刻意的煲鸡汤。
故事展开的很自然,小男孩特雷弗和妈妈生活在一起,遭受到家庭暴力的母亲因为各种不如意开始酗酒。
然而特雷弗新来的家庭老师却给他们带来了希望。
他他坚信人性本善,希望能用小小的举动帮助到更多的人。
他收留流浪汉,帮助遭受家庭暴里的特雷弗妈妈走出阴影。
特雷弗像个小天使,他一直在帮助人,甚至担任起撮合老师和妈妈的媒人。
当以为一切都步入正轨的时候,特雷弗的死确实让人很意外,这样的设定确实让人感到震撼和遗憾。
因为特雷弗的死,他的故事被流传开,人们自发的来到他家门口悼念他,那一幕让人泪目。
最后特雷弗真的做到了把爱传出去。
像电影中说的那样,你帮助了三个人,然后和他们约定,他们也要去帮助三个人,这样越来越多的人就会得到帮助。
人性本善,爱是延续。
《pay it forward》美好人生,哈佛大学心理学课程《环境的力量》提到的 指数增长,提到把爱传下去,这部电影,你帮助三个人,一个很大的忙,让他们分别也去帮助三个人,把爱传下去,20个人就可以传递到全世界了……,it’s amazing ,主人公是个小男孩,一开始做是想看看能否改变这糟糕的世界了,有的人不敢尝试改变现状,就放弃了,那这个项目也就失败了,其中小男孩救助的第一人一个流浪汉,请他回家吃饭,洗澡,流浪汉帮助她妈妈修好了车,说找到了工作,不会再吸毒了,但是毒瘾多难控制呀,小男孩以为这个人救助失败了,流浪汉救助了一位准备自杀跳桥的女士,他说:请我喝杯咖啡吧,你救救我吧,一个砸窗抢劫的被警察追捕获救的黑人,在医院里朝地上开了两枪,为了护士重视抢救得哮喘的姑娘,获得牢狱一年,姑娘的爸爸把爱传到了新闻工作者,随之调查,帮助黑人提前获得了假释。
不要害怕而不敢于改变现状
Be the change I wanna see in the world and pay it forward, then the world's really turning around
四星半。很煽情啊,当年看的时候那么多人还是没抗住哭了。小孩子还是很容易打动人。
又给了我幻想的勇气和力量。如果这个世界能够......
少了书的精髓
一般,开头很刺激,本来我是充满期待的,可是之后整个故事平平淡淡,一直到最后悲剧的收尾。主旨立意挺好的,但是没拍好,拍出来没有感染力。总体一般吧,结局不知道导演为什么要这样安排,难道想表达把爱传出去就是牺牲自己吗。评分高可能是大家看中这部电影的正能量,我想题材好不代表拍出来就好
並不溫馨略顯灰暗的基調再加上凱文史派西,讓我以為會是像“美國心玫瑰情”一樣,又有什麼特別展開的電影。沒想到就真的只是這樣。共幼短片可能也可以拍得出來。
2009.9
11岁的正太,源于天真的想法,却影响了很多人,真的让爱传出去,却死于一场小小的见义勇为。多希望能是happy ending啊!
点点星光,照亮大地
眼泪哗啦哗啦的流...90年代结束,21世纪最初的那种故事。所谓的皆大欢喜已经不存在了,想要获得一些什么就需要付出巨大的勇气,也需要一些随机的好运。改变世界依然有一些可能性,Trevor死的时候还是有来自全国的的人为他点燃蜡烛。可是,现在没有人再为正义挺身而出,因为巨大的牺牲在固化的社会阶层和权力分配面前,在法律和人性变得不再可靠的现实里可能惊不起一丝波澜。Simonet画了一张饼,他留作业的时候说,现在世界对你们别无所求,你们连上厕所都需要经过我的批准,但是有一天你们会自由的,那时候你们会走入社会,会发现这个世界到处都是屎,我希望你们现在就去尝试改变,然后在你们进入这个到处都是屎的世界的时候,有能力把从哪个屁眼里拉的屎塞回哪个屁眼里去。不管有多不现实,他画的饼到现在依然能打动我。
帮抢劫那个逃离警察追捕叫做把爱传递下去 WTF
歌颂主旋律的把戏稍玩不好就沦为党的女儿,影帝影后的演技在这里怎么看都助推影片驰往无聊的心灵鸡汤。1分,滚出。
为什么会让那个小孩子死去呢?
这是全人类共同的使命,也是我这一生要面对的课题!
很感动很感动的电影。海利•乔•奥斯蒙特带来的一直都是深深的感动。
看到小正太的成年照就幻灭了......= =
哇哇地哭啊。
死得太刻意戲劇化了.
刻意营造的乌托邦,让剧情走向莫名其妙的结局。可能遗憾更能让大家记住,但我相信美好的现实不会因为一个人而改变,因为时间会冲淡一切,只有至亲的人才会记得,同样糟糕的也是。但有一点让我印象深刻的是最好电视机里的一席话——多关心身边的人,可能在连他们自己都并没有察觉的地方,你轻轻的一个举动,就可以改善他的一生。
开头部分让我对这部电影充满期待 看着看着 看到结尾 就真不知道该说什么好了