所有美好的东西

一开始的阴郁风格的画面一出现，就猜到片名是反其道而行的，美好的片名只是为了衬托脆弱的美好或者说是美好的外衣下掩藏的阴暗潮湿的心。

在猜想如果David从最开始选择和Kathleen住在乡间，开着那间名叫ALL GOOD THING 的健康食品店，那么结局会不会相反，会不会一直是那样。

仔细一想，本质还是不会变的，无论David在哪里，做着什么样的的事情，遇见什么样的人，他还是那个心里藏着魔鬼的男人，会毁灭一切柔软美好的男人。

其实他自己的心里亦是不好受的吧，他爱着Katie，却爱得那么霸道以至于开始变的畸形。

冰冷的童年，现实的家庭，无爱的少年，注定了不懂得怎样去爱，怎样的爱才不会伤害到自己爱的人。

故事刚开始的美好，会让每个人沉溺，Katie柔软温暖的微笑，纯净清澈的亲吻，乡间不经意的小花朵，近乎完美。

可是残酷的生活不会留一点喘息的机会，短暂的美好之后，故事一直持续着冷色调的讲述。

欺骗，心照不宣，暴力，眼泪，绝望，哀求，死亡。。。

各种阴冷。

各种残忍。

你的爱如同罂粟，爱上你艳丽的外表的同时，却不知已中了你致命的毒。。。

An interesting thriller featuring two of my favourite leads. Unsurprisingly the acting is great by not only them, but the entire cast. Although cliche to a fault, it is a great story by itself, but definitely has the feel of a missed opportunity for something much bigger. I understand the back story, the father-son relationship aspect of the film, and I like the tone that gives the film, but perhaps it dwelled on that a little too much and missed the more human aspect of the characters.

万种风情化为尘埃，万种伤悲化为眼泪。

你知道美好与不美好的通道吗？

其实一个笑容就可以沉湎，其实一个孩子就可以挽救。

湖水激荡的温柔，包裹了一切的不是。

如同岁月剥蚀，如同回温，走失，回不去，那时拥抱的温度……

跟朋友谈起来，好像工薪族养大的小孩，都或多或少有些跟家庭相关的童年阴影。

比如很小的时候父母过世，或者父母大战八百回合摔掉家里所有锅碗瓢勺然后离异，或者父母一方是个有恶习的asshole，再或者父母本身就有些性格问题或者family issue。

更或者，很小的事情都会成为童年阴影的来源。

看多了犯罪片，赫然发现我们都有成为连环杀手的潜质。

电影里的男主这辈子最被人对不起的事，就是眼睁睁看着老妈坠楼身亡。

这打击当然巨大，但他之后的生活也算平静幸福。

从小到大作为继承人脱线多次，老爹也并没有逼他或者放弃他。

妻子Katie和她的家人也全心全意地接纳了他。

中间虽然摩擦磕碰不断，她最后还是回了他的家。

所以他为什么就成了杀人凶手呢？

而且杀掉的总是爱他的人。

所以这部片第一点绝对是单身女青年的噩梦。

蜜月的男主是个多么正常的小伙子啊，更何况从常理讲，大把票子养大的小朋友不都应该无忧无虑开朗向上么？

连这种人都有这样那样心理阴影，其他摸爬滚打一路挫折长大的人岂不是更阴湿发霉心理变态？

所以结婚神马的要找谁？？？？

第二点是已婚有娃的妇女的噩梦。

娃真的好难养哦，稍有不慎就会造成童年阴影或者性格扭曲。

从小百依百顺，某一次不给钱了小孩就抡刀砍父母的有，从小严加管教严格规范，某此吵架时小孩抄斧子削父母的有，无缘无故，稍微有点不顺心就砍父母的也有。

我之前曾经有想过念发展心理学的最后放弃了，翻了几本书之后发现养娃真的需谨慎。

小孩是个危险品。

或许人总是对自己爱的人和事物要求过高。

如果男朋友或者父母不理解自己想法或者忽略自己感受，就会万箭钻心“你怎么会不理解我呢，别人可以，但是是你啊！

”衍伸到“搞了半天是我一头犯贱，那好今后我也用你对我的方式对你，我们两不相欠。

”反而忘了最简单的一个道理：人毕竟都是孤独的，人是不可能完全理解另外一个人的。

因为总会有一段人生他们未曾参与。

所以不如打开天窗。

坦率几分，告诉他们，‘我一直都很爱你们’，‘请你们不要猜测我，我在想什么，我会好好告诉你，所以请你也告诉我。

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帅到无以复加的高司令 庞大到纽约市半个中心街区的家族势力 7岁时候摸着跳楼母亲的额头 当他真正想要脱离家族生活的时候 父亲的：漂亮女人值得拥有更好的生活 将他拖回与现实的责任 面对违逆自我的选择时 好像只有K才能才他入睡 可K也是一位有着大家庭的医学院毕业的研究生 D玻璃心无法接受分享心爱之物 K终成玩物死爱犬之后 对我来说 后面的故事发展与案件处理我更在乎的是K死了之后K的状态 也许就像7岁直到遇见水管漏了的D一样 迟到的生活 苟且的日常 故事最后 纵使三宗命案缠身 百万身家也能让你安全脱身

即使是最美好的时光里，David也从未说过他爱Katie。

童年的阴影并没有让他失去爱的能力，却让他对爱变得冷漠，对生命变得冷漠。

Katie问David想不想要一个孩子时，David沉默地拒绝了，而后又告诉她，永远不想谈论这件事。

David也许是不想他的孩子像他一样，也许是不想再添加压力，但出身在平凡家庭的Katie不会懂他。

所以David熄灭了烟，站起身，说：“There is something wrong with me.”David的父亲告诉David，Katie不可能成为他们家的一员时，David回答道，那不是很好吗。

Katie于David，像一场梦幻的邂逅，是脱离他原本世界的。

他是爱着她，或是爱着她的天真烂漫的。

两人的家庭、世界观，巨大的鸿沟造成了最后的惨剧。

Katie是一场美梦，但只能是一场梦。

“I really miss her." Robert Durst在父亲临死前冒着被抓捕的危险悄悄造访，唯一说出的一句话却是对于亡妻的想念。

Bob是爱着Kathie的，即使是在他亲手杀妻藏尸的时候，他的爱恐怕也从未有一丝动摇。

自古富豪多变态，Bob不是传奇的纽约灾星，他的故事更像是一个被金钱彻底释放了的后现代悲剧。

作为拥有半个时代广场的曼哈顿房产巨鳄Durst家族的长子，Bob却拥有最悲惨的童年。

熟睡中被父亲叫醒，亲眼目睹母亲跳楼自杀，7岁的Bob从记事起便活在一辈子也走不出的阴影中，死亡带来的刺激，父亲的冷淡与兄弟的排斥，可怜的Bob想不变态都难。

遇见Kathie本可以成为Bob人生的转折点。

开朗的长岛少女，炽热的爱情和平淡的乡下生活，婚后的纽约贵族过起了平凡人的小日子。

故事如果就此结束，就成了一段happily ever after的童话。

可惜生活总是循规蹈矩，富豪总归得子承父业。

当两人坐上回纽约的奔驰车时，悲剧就已经注定。

变态始终还是变态，不管你看了多少心理医生。

杀狗，杀妻，杀友，将邻居碎尸后抛弃在冰冷的河水里。

因为有钱，Bob的家庭摆平了妻子的失踪案，20年来他甚至从未正式成为嫌疑人；因为有钱，他可以请来全德州最好的两大律师，将杀人碎尸硬生生说成了正当防卫，"我没杀他，我只是将他分尸了。

"Not guilty. Bob大摇大摆的走出法庭的时候止不住脸上得意的笑容。

妻子失踪26年后，根据Bob的事迹改编的电影《所有美好的东西》上映。

或许是高司令冷峻的演绎引起了Bob的共鸣，或许是邓斯特天真的笑容唤起了Bob的记忆，71岁的Bob竟然主动联系电影导演要求被采访。

而正是这一采，最终把他再次送上了法庭。

在这部6集的纪录片《纽约灾星》的最后，被新呈递的笔迹证据打个"措手不及"的Bob在洗手间里自言自语，甚至忘了还没关掉的麦克风。

"what the hell did I do? Killed them all of course."“Them”, 是他一生的最爱，交心的知己。

“Them”, 是他一生中唯一美好的东西。

或许在Bob的记忆深处，依然闪回着Kathie的单纯和Susan的率直，或许当他想起他们时，嘴角仍会泛起微笑。

可惜，悲剧就是把美好的东西毁灭给人看，而当Bob看着母亲从屋顶一跃而下的瞬间，上帝已经给这场闹剧写下了悲剧的结局。

凌晨2点才看完，又一部沉重的片子，沉的让我有点透不过气来片名“All Good Things”是为了反讽这阴暗的现实吧All the good things just stay in memory～悬疑片 不宜剧透太多根据真实案件改编，导演编剧一般但Ryan和蜘蛛女的表演都很出彩～尤其是Ryan，将David那颗埋藏在平静面孔下的破碎的心表现的丝丝入扣Gosling今后估计会被打上“脆弱、不安、神经质男”的角色标签了

He is a child until his father’s death. His life marked as he is 9 years old, after watching his mother death. It is like he never grows up and become who he is right now. He blames all of it to his father. From that moment on, he does everything against his father’s wish. Such as always late; bring first met Katie to his family party; even married to Katie is after talked between his father and him.(She is never belong to us. Isn’t it good…); they move from Vermont to NYC, after his father talked to him. One thing interesting in film, his father said why Katie with him is she want to live a better life, not now, most important thing he said, she is like your mother. HE look over her again, I think the answer is yes.On the other hand, he is afraid of his father too. He also wants to make proud of his father. If one thing is against David wish, but he can’t said no. There is a thing become grown in his heart which makes his character more twisted and lost control…Katie and he might be really loves each other. But the love it’s different from each other. David love Katie is like she gave him mother-like feelings. Like he said, she loves everything you like that she didn’t like. She gave him unselfish love, although she knew there is something wrong with David more than one times. She is still with him. On David comprehensive, this love should obey him, Katie like his privacy. He can’t stand someone steals it, which means the boat far away from the shore; Katie wants to go a medical school... Why Katie loves him so much, I didn’t see so much that she look on David‘s money. Maybe they have the same childhood; David just gave her the pure love. Although ten years past, she still felt that David loves her so much. But the way of love changed and twisted. Two weak people but really matched!David is under the edge of lose control…The climax of this film is the talk between David and his father. He finally got the answer of why he became like this. The childhood nightmare always like devil follows him, change him, and make him. Then finally cleared, but it’s too late. He still is a child, play disappearing game with everyone. He might be thought it’s a excellent revenge. But he knew he left something…At the end of visiting his dying father, David said I miss her so much. I think most of her is said Katie and some of said his mother. In David subconscious, Katie is his mother. He gave her violence death like his father gave her mother. But after his father death, he feels free eventually. All good things come to an end, but happened before...

看完想起黄子华的金句：爱情同掳人勒索没分别，不是我死给你看，就是你死给我看。

“你肯乖乖留系度米好啦，系都要逼我出手。

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