This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor Paul Newman. One day, he came to the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left behind. For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn’t supposed to and slipped it into my pocket. One of the customer saw and said “Don’t worry. Your secret is safe with me.” That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather.So, my Alex, who I love so dearly, who is probably too much like me for her own good, every once in a while, don’t be afraid to break the rules. You never know what can happen.
Claire每次万圣节的点子都好棒,我很喜欢她的点子。
虽然她被禁了😂Phil骑着Jay的哈雷被它压住留视频遗言每次看都觉得很好笑。
Manny过生日这集超好看,全程无尿点🤣又好笑又温情,Gloria不想宝宝在分掉母爱的同时还分掉Manny的生日真的好暖呀,听说那个吻还真是Manny演员的初吻💋Manny喜欢的那个叫达丽娅的保姆很好唉,温柔又智慧。
从Luke每次教别人都好搞笑,从教Gloria骑自行车到他教米球打手球,铁腕教练反差萌,关键还都很有效果。
MF每次致敬教父真的都还挺经典的。
Phil麻麻离开那里我很喜欢Alex最后读信,信的内容温暖又浪漫,Alex读信的声音也很好听很温柔。
Phil“就算哪个小家伙打出五个全垒打,赛场上最耀眼的明星依然是Claire。
这就是婚姻的可笑之处,你爱上了一个卓越优秀的人,但随着时间推移,却只能看到对方的平凡。
”这集应该给支持女人做家庭主妇的看看,Claire作为一个喜剧里的富二代,因为做主妇的时间太久,一连五次被拒,她不过是想给孩子攒学费,给老公买礼物,给自己买双靴子,用自己的钱😀最后说一句,Phil的竞争对手,格尔索普真的好讨厌啊!
加利福尼亚州潮湿的天气,血脉和心理连结的坚定,无伤大雅的小坏心思,为失去自己的爱人再寻生命另一篇章......然后你捻开那封信,对解开谜底信心不移,撞上对方慌张的谎,第二次敲开不再会陌生的门......Alex 是一个非常冷静和客观的人,她能够在紧张的情况下保持冷静,并做出正确的决策,她的冷静和客观常常帮助家人解决问题,祖母把这点燃自己下半生的打火机留给她,想要Alex太像自己的理性里有能够燃起激情和未知世界的那个lighter。
又把给丈夫的再婚计划交给Phil,想Phil学着放下,在他的不舍和感性为情感世界留下的伤疤撒一点暂时的盐,和贴一个长久的创可贴。
第四季比前三季要好很多。
刚开始看《摩登家庭》有点不习惯,因为刚从《生活大爆炸》和《老友记》中切过来,感到《摩登家庭》缺少笑点:最初两季大多选取贴近生活的情节,少用强戏剧化的情节,而且没有录现场群众的笑声。
最初我有点看不下去,觉得没劲。
但看到后面越来越喜欢,开始有点理解编剧导演的良苦用心和敢于尝试的勇气了。
要知道,要从简单日常的生活中发掘感人和引发思考的内容比人为创设强情节难多了。
有一集Jay说:今天就让我们全家以自己最真实的样子聚在一起,不是别人期待的样子,也不是我们想成为的那个优秀的自己。
我太喜欢这段话了,一个人要做到这样太不容易了。
如果一个人的家庭允许他以这样的方式存在、说话和行动,那他就太幸福了。
我最喜欢Gloria和Cameron。
Jay和Mitchell两父子找到这样的伴侣真是幸运。
他们两个都是感情比较封闭的人,他们需要感情外放流动的人陪在身边。
因为是TBBT在艾美奖强有力的竞争对手,所以我才看了这部剧,结果把四季一气看完,捧腹俯仰之间,更觉得一种温暖的幸福感。
故事的人物设定其实是一群很普通的危险关系:老夫少妻且异国恋的相处,继父与继子的相处,离婚后与ex的相处,中年夫妇的相处,一群年纪相仿的孩子相处,领养父母与孩子的相处,最大亮点——一堆男同夫妇同居后的相处。
这些显然都有潜在高危因素,因为文化,血缘,年龄,普世观念很容易有“火山爆发”的危险。
结果在这样一个家庭里能相处地如此和谐、幽默,不得不赞一下机智的编剧,人物设定下,让人看了觉得真的可能,且倍觉温暖和不易。
我想,这也是这部家庭喜剧甩一众家庭喜剧几条街的原因。
很多人说这部剧还玩了个小聪明,就是采取伪纪录片的形式来讲故事。
的确,既增加了幽默感,也增加了真实感,但是要知道这要冒一个很大的风险,就是流于平淡,很少有人能坐下来,一下子看完四季的纪录片就是这个原因。
编剧从塑造人物性格到凸显人物性格丝毫不露痕迹,甚至可以说渐臻佳境,让人迅速代入角色而不自知。
特别想说的是就是Jay和他的一对儿女,Jay就是控制欲强,喜好竞争,不善表达情感,并且或多或少遗传到Clare和Michle身上。
而且这种遗传其实放之四海而皆准,让人不禁想到自己的父母,从而生出不能再多的认同感,这一点我觉得在其他致力于塑造鲜活个性的家庭喜剧上并不多见,即使有,也很难做成一个亮点。
不得不提的是M&C这对夫妇,这也是我对这部剧想写点什么的原因:可以说,这部剧让我重新认识到同性恋的爱情,之前很少看到此类影视剧,连断背山都没能看完就弃了,个人觉得《老友记》罗斯的前妻是lesbian这条线似乎可以再展开一点,可是再一想毕竟不是主角,展开了除了浪费主线,而且在当时似乎也不为太多人认可。
而摩登家庭则不一样,在摩登的年代描绘一个摩登的夫妻,容易很多,也得心应手很多。
Micle是一个小律师,负责挣钱养家,Cam则是个“家庭主夫”,负责照看孩子,他们生活中的点点滴滴,展示给我们看一个真实的家庭,不是我们意淫出来的,也不掺杂腹诽和讽刺的家庭组合,他们向别人介绍对方为Partner,他们有自己特别的小圈子,能让他们在酒吧里一起谈天说地喝酒high歌,他们会为对方着想哪怕心里有一点不情愿,尊重对方的小爱好,会小心讨对方父母的欢心,对孩子,对家务。。。
真的是平常夫妻能做到的他们都做到了,而且那么贴心仔细,这是我一开始没有料想到的惊艳。
Cam的扮演者生活中是个直男,然而在剧中的表现真的是可圈可点,实属不易。
此前一度错误以为男同必然是两个相貌英姿都过人的男子,一度以为男同和女同是最容易亲近的团体,一度以为男同必然会有一方为男人一方为女人,果然认知太片面,惭愧不已。
最后,再想褒奖一下小演员们,几个主要的成年演员演技和水准自不必说,老道而鲜活,但是几个小演员,的确是真的用生命在演戏了。
少年老成的Manny,热衷派对的Hayley,书生气重的Alex,呆萌又聪明的Luke,看到他们坐在沙发上,像模像样地对着摄像机讲心里话,就顿时觉得乐不可支了,甚至根本不用开口好么。
我想这样一个摩登而幸福的家庭,一定治愈了很多很多人,不是那种“你饿了吧,我去给你下碗面吧”似的隔靴搔痒,而是“你看,大家都以为我不会这么幸福,但是我做到了,你比我容易很多,还有什么让你不好好过活?
”——本该如此,珍惜当下,珍惜眼前人,幸福本来就是是各有各的幸福。
希望这部剧一路拍下去,当然,我想,一定会的。
#12Phil: Nice game of chicken, Claire. She's gone!Claire: She is coming back. I am almost positive.Phil: Why do I listen to you? Why? You were wrong about the iPod being a failure. You were wrong about tomato being a vegetable. I don't even want to talk about your favorite "Planet" Pluto! Haley:You were going to let me go with him?Claire: Isn't that what you wanted, honey?Haley: What's the matter with you?! You've been acting so weird ever since I left college! Claire: For the record, you didn't leave college. You were asked to leave.Haley: Oh, which you guys never let me forget, especially dad.Claire: Honey, your father...Haley: Oh, you don't have to tell me what he thinks, okay? I'm a huge disappointment to him. I see it on his face every day. He acts as if he doesn't even want me around.Phil: Give me the ticket for the car.Claire: Phil...Phil: I'm going after her! This little chicken game may work for your dad, but it doesn't work for me. That's my little girl. I need her to know that no guy on earth is good enough for her, let alone some slimy, middle-aged jean salesman!Phil: What's this?Claire: Just enjoy it.Jay: There's all kinds of milestones in life. The kind you expect to live through... The first kiss. Birthdays. Graduations. If you're lucky, a wedding or two. Or even a new addition to the family. You never dreamed you'd get to live through again. And that's the best kind of all. Why am I spoiling it for you? You'll see for yourself.#22Haley: Uh, what do you think you're doing out there?Alex: I'm flirting.Haley: That's what I was afraid of.Alex: Look, I'm not gonna pretend I'm stupid just so a boy will like me.Haley: Of course not. But you don't have to put the poor guy to shame. Flirting with boys is about increasing your value, not decreasing theirs.Alex: That's a complicated thought. What magazine taught you that?Haley: You're doing it again! The mean things. Can you even hear it or what?!Alex: I heard it.Haley: Good. So now that he knows that you're smart, let's work on being nice.Haley & Alex: We won!Boy A & B: Man, that sucks! Yeah, totally un-masculating.Alex: Well, at least you guys look cool when you play.Boy A & B: Let's play again. This never happened.Haley: Actually, we need to go hang out with our family for a while.Boy A & B: Really? Now?Haley: Yeah, but we'll be around. We'll see you guys.Alex: What happened? Did I mess up?Haley: No, you did great.Alex: So he didn't like me?Haley: No, he totally liked you.Alex: Then why'd we walk away?Haley: This was never about him. This was about getting you some confidence. Guys will pick up on that. Better guys. Guys who can lose to a girl without feeling e-masculated.Alex: Okay, try not to throw this in my face one day, but sometimes you're actually really smart. Like, smart smart. I hope you know that.Haley: And I'm totally throwing that in your face one day. Are you kidding?Jay: Good guy.Cam: Who -- Teddy? Yeah. Yeah, he's the best.Jay: Nuts he can't find anybody, huh? Gotta be something a little off there. He definitely did not bring out the best in Mitchell, I can tell you that right now.Cam: Oh, really? Well, you know, not that it matters... but in what way exactly?Jay: Honestly? When they were together, Mitchell could be a bit of pill. Now, I like Teddy, but when they broke up, I was actually kinda glad. Of course , Mitchell thought that I was uncomfortable because of the gay thing, and maybe I was, but... I really just wanted him to be happy. Like he is now. And when you two started up, everyone thought, "Well, there it is."#Okay, kids. Couples skate. Grab someone you love and get out there.#Cam: Jay, you can be so...Jay: I'm not skating with you, Cam.Cam: Yeah.Claire: What about me, dad? You wanna skate with me?Manny: What qualifies someone as a hero? Obviously, a hero has to be someone we respect. A person we look up to. A person who is generous of spirit. Who's willing to grow and learn. Maybe it's the person you love most in the world or the guy who makes the most out of life, no matter what anyone thinks. For me, though... The hero in my family is my family because of who we are together.C-. "This was not the assignment." I'll tell you who is not my hero, Mrs. Rita Mcnabb.#24Phil: My daughter Alex would like to pay tribute.Alex: My grandmother and I had a very special bond. This may not make sense to everyone, but I'm pretty sure she would've loved it. "This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor, Paul Newman. One day, he came into the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left it behind. For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn't supposed to and slipped it into my pocket. One of the customers saw and said, "don't worry. Your secret's safe with me." That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather. So, my Alex, who I love so dearly, who is probably too much like me for her own good, every once in a while, don't be afraid to break the rules. You never know what can happen."
摩登家庭,爱的教程。
第4季第19集,关键词:包容。
包容,真的是个老生常谈又常说常新的话题。
在一个有爱的家庭里,在一个有爱的关系里,包容常会被人提起却又常会被人忽略。
每个人都有每个人独特的成长环境和成长经历,也就必然导致了每个人都有着自己的所得和所失,满足和遗憾。
Lily渴望减少自己和两个爸爸的差异性,不愿意承认自己是越南人,想让自己的身份定位在同性恋,可Cam和Mitch希望她有无限的可能性,不要早早的给自己限定并抵制自己原生的身份,对Gloria来说,对祖国和来处的认同却是非常非常重要。
几个人在餐厅,越是为了强调自己的包容性,似乎越是巧合的得罪了各个不同身份认同的人。
在医院里,Phil和Clair自以为分别遇到了自己的教育理念下可能出现的孩子成长的负面性,马上给孩子打电话想让他们避免出现这种情况,孩子们误解他们是孩子气爆发让他们成熟一点。
这部剧的底色何尝不是最大程度的在强调包容,当我们承认自己的差异性,承认和爱的人之间存在的差异性,愿意接受自己的不完美并让自己圆满,接受爱的人的不完美并等待他/她的圆满,这又何尝不是包容的底色。
摩登家庭,爱的教程。
第4季第23集,关键词:加深了解的空间。
距离感是一个很难把握的事情,尤其是在亲密关系中。
我们天然的希望了解自己爱的人的一切,希望能够掌握每一个角落。
但是,我们又都希望自己能够保留一块小小的天地。
我们会在无意中发现亲密的人的隐私中看到意外之喜,也会发现不想看到的小秘密。
Phil开着客户送给他们开一段时间的房车,满心欢喜的带着Claire和孩子们出发前往黄石公园,Claire却隐约感到封闭的环境下,孩子们一定会爆发出灾难性的吵闹,果不其然大乱开始,Phil气不打一处来,结果孩子们在争吵过程中相互吐露秘密并变的更加亲近。
Jay带着Gloria和Manny在另外两家来回转,试图找到Manny准备晚上在朗诵会上用的诗,他们误解另外两家开party竟然没有叫他们,结果发现原来是Manny忘了将请帖给他们,更进而发现Manny有着自己的小秘密,并不想让他们参加自己的诗歌朗诵会。
其实该怎么控制这种想要了解亲密的人自己的秘密的冲动呢,想来最好的方式还是在自己爱的人感觉到安心和舒服的时候听他/她自己讲出来比较好,其他的时间里更好的爱的形式应该是理解和包容吧。
哈哈哈哈哈第一集就好黄好搞笑,大象和猩猩车震position哈哈哈哈哈哈。
65岁jay老来得子恭喜恭喜!
第二集好好哭😭大女儿嫌弃父母开学第一天接送,张罗东西,虽然在室友面前出丑了,但这一天结束还是由衷地说“I love you guys”😭😭第三集互相嘲讽哈哈哈not a real man什么结扎劝退billboard😂😂gloria显怀了一下子把衣服崩坏了太搞笑了😂😂cam因为太闲给猫咪织了一件衣服,还是去当音乐老师吧😂😂大女儿和二女儿越来越聊的来了(*^ω^*)第四集gloria打鼾太不容易了,还有luke平平无奇魔术小天才,Claire家务十项全能哈哈哈哈差点骗过去cam,结果却因为体谅Mitchell被大骂一顿才得到井井有条的帮助哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈第十集太对了,爱上一个卓越的人,时间久了却只看到他的平庸,和家人合伙做生意,只会得到一个破败的场面。
一季的结束,结尾特别美好,绚烂的烟花犹如每次过年那种普天同庆的喜庆,就如同生命中每一次灿烂的美好,那么的刻骨铭心,那么的具有无与伦比的意思,像是登台演出,像是被所有人羡慕眼光所笼罩的那一刻,而跟那一样美丽的,最后一刻的黄昏和摇椅,完美的夏日,一切都是那么美好,那么的沁人心脾,好想生活在那里,过不完的夏天,漫长的海岸线,人烟稀少的住宅。
不断寻找的,努力的,发现的,一切还是无法打破生活的梗长,那种望不到头的日月,那些无尽的烦忧,那些无法使我充满希望的度过接下来的几十年。
一生中纠结的事有很多,缺少金钱,不够完美的容貌,得不到情人的全身心投入,或是失去本来所拥有的,有的不多失去的也不少,到了一定的年龄,有些事情身不由己。
不停的在想很多事情,却也突然明白,我要的努力,是在能力范畴之内的,其余的许多东西,可能真的不需要过多的苛求与索取,要想明白这些,放弃许多事情,真的是很不容易,不要把太多的事情放在眼里,真的很难,但可能这就是意思吧,一切都没有意思,活在其他的介质里,想要摆脱一切,真的是很难呢
在我心中绝对超越tbbt啊!第一集那两个玩偶大象和猩猩真是抢尽风头啊。
感觉普通了啊
越来越讨厌孩儿他妈
一如既然地好看,一如既往地还能带来一点关于人生,家庭的思考。
光凭EP13结尾那段高仿《教父》就值五颗星。
第一集开场就开始笑 起点高过2bg和tbbt 不!要!烂!
本打算弃追了,植入广告太多,剧情也越来越没新意,不过最后一集还挺好看的。
Ep21,22,and Paul Newman's lighter.
不好笑...
为神马第一集就呈现出一幅结局范~~
我真吐了,Dylan为什么阴魂不散啊……Phil也是能不能像个有脑子的正常人!
集齐所有虚伪的美式价值观....每个人物every single charactor 都很可憎。。
jay~jay~
不精彩了
一个每集二十分钟的喜剧 最后一集我看哭了
最后一集是泪点~~~paul newman的打火机,要是我也会偷偷藏起来!只是我遇不到那个他~%>_<%
五星必须滴。好有爱的一家人。最后一集片尾的台词直接飚泪了。
Adorable!
still not my type
第一集比大爆炸第一集给力多了!!!!!